Taking Action Against Nail Biting is Better Than Doing Nothing

Published: 27th June 2011
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Sounding off as a very strange tip, actually not doing anything is just the way to deal with a juvenile nail biter. Why? Because the majority of children do it at one or other time of their lives and then stop it. So if your child is biting his or her nails frequently, you could first try the passive, or the do-nothing approach of leaving it up to him, or her, to stop. However, a prolonged nail biting or other worrying, nervous habits, like picking at their skin, or pulling their hair, warrant an intervention. One of your first move can include consulting a paediatrician about applicable measures to take.



Create A Stressless Life



In so many cases, reducing the stress affecting the child's life often create the environment to kick nail bitig habit. Learn how to distinguish stress that ordinary to life, and those over which we exercise some measure of control, like moving to another school district. The stress of necessity might affect the child; ". . . kids often suffer when they are moving to a new place – house, school, kindergarten, or when there are problems in the family like a divorce or frequent quarrels." But those you cannot reduce, like hurricane, tornados, life's deadly circles, take their toll on a child. However, eliminating the stress in a child's life, he or she will stop biting their nails, if the biting is stress related. In this relation, it is necessary to clarify that you must keep the child safe from stress, not from ordinary life hardships like difficulties at school or cries for a new toy.




Use the Carrot, Rather Than the Stick Approach to Nail Biting



A system of rewards for not biting his or her nails can work. You will achieve better results in comparison to when you scold, or punish, him, or her. Scolding, punishing, or shaming, the child will not spoil the child – getting a new toy for every "nail biting-free" day is too much. Nagging or punishing usually have the adverse effect – you just make the child more tense and he or she feels even more like biting her nails in spite to, as she might think, hurt you. Beware of his, or her, temper because using force might make him, or her, deliberately offensive.



The Magic of Nail Polish.



You might think nail polish, its chemically bitter and repugnant taste, but applying it on your child's fingers some orthodontists say pulls the rug from under the child who only seeks comfort with his, or her, habit. Whether it works for older girls and boys, just how do you feel trying to ". . . make them understand that their hands look ugly when the nails are bitten and because of their strange shape, no nail polish is applicable." In addition, you'd go on further to paint pictures presenting them their memories of how beautiful the long and colorful nails of their favorite singer or actress are, thinking that also works. But there's no will power to quit in there.




Nail Biting Downside



When children are very young, let's say 3 or 4 years old, it might take a lot of patience to explain to them that nail biting is wrong, but that the defining, teachable moment to begin. The perfect nail-biting environment is at home; in kindergarten it's less so because class assignments keep their fingers busy. "It is especially bad if there are nail-biters in the family – older brothers or sisters, or even the parents themselves. The example and influence of older family members is unavoidable and in this case you need to concentrate not only on the child but on the other nail biters as well."



Make Them Wash Their Hands Frequently.



Nail biting hardly engenders deadly diseases;, however, certain risk of infection present health problems. Decreasing this risk might mean to make the child wash his, or her hands frequently. None of it tastes good clean nails, are less delicious dirty nails, but minimizing the risk of picking an infection makes sense with wasking frequently. When his, or her, fingers constantly visit the mouth, stucking them in clean has its rewards.



The Use o Nasty Nail Polish



While for adults, awfully-tasting nail polishes are a solution, for children they are not recommendable. If you are an adult, it is your decision to polish your nails with the nastiest compound on earth, while when you are a child and somebody else does this to you, it is regarded as unfair punishment. So use this only if you really have no other chance.



Other Physical Obstacles.



For some children this is a totally acceptable approach that reminds them not to bite their nails. Physical obstacles include less punitive measures than a nasty-tasting nail polish, like colored bands on the fingers or mittens.



All that have their effects and might achieve their ends. And you might feel happy about the outcome, but what else have they left?



"DON'T use the nasty-tasting stuff that is marketed to stop thumb sucking and finger sucking. "It's just cruel," Jenn Berman, Ph.D., psychologist in Beverly Hills, Calif., says. "It's pulling the rug out from under your child and that's not fair."



With all of what's been said, you need a formula that exceeds expectation to stop nail-biting, or even raise school grades. Do you continue to use the same products that stop nail-biting, but left nothing else, or a formula that builds character, self-control, promotes ethics, and to avoid liability now and in the future?





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